Male chauvinism and Feminism are both harmful for harmonious existence
of family system . The art of Male & Female relationship should not be
weighed under the equal rights nor on economic freedom of Women. Where
as Mutual understanding , dignity and responsibility will alone save
the gender conflict that we often see among newly wedded couples.
Strengthen ones relationship with trust and reciprocate the
feeling, this alone will save the family system.
Bharateeya women especially the younger ones are in dilemma whether to
follow the fashionable inherently failing Western model or the subtle
but silently succeeding Bharateeya model. Often, Women are carried away
by vociferous advocated of womens Lib's, now find themselves at cross
roads - whether to earn for Rights or earn Reverence , whether to be
Liberated or to be Venerated.
The sacred bond of Man & Woman
has come under considerable strain bringing its wake, several
aberrations. Along with class conflict, caste prejudice, communal
bigotry, we have gender war going on . There is male chauvinism, now
encountered by female chauvinism.
The pious relationship has been
subjected to an un-healthy debate verging on vulgarity, to say the
least. involved. The Media and pseudo social reformers are having a
hayday inciting one against the other with no personal stakes
Not
all Women are innocent, Not all Men are violent. The Gender war is not
in the interest of Family. The gender equality can be addressed through
traditional family values prevalent to changes by the present social
condition. Mother Nature has defined the roles for men & women,
let abide by it with current societal changes. One has to remember that
it’s the Family that holds the society, if family is tampered upon with
brutal assault of gender liberation then there might not be any society
nor any values. Let not our intelligence get clouded in Male or Female
chauvinism. May good sense prevail and harmony in families flourish.